Two dates and no action!

Hello again

Its after the weekend and I have definitely got off to a start!
Within 24 hours of declaring my intention of going on 20 dates, an ex-boyfriend showed up and invited me out for drinks and dinner! Amazing how the power of intention and public declaration can work!

Anyway we had a gorgeous evening , and I got to remember how lovely it is to be taken out and treated by a guy. To really understand that it is a pleasure for him to want to provide for me and to receive graciosly. We had a gorgeous and easy evening and I really felt that Id got off to a great start

Apart from one thing ....this date didnt really count as 1) he was an ex, and I m not really in the business of going over old ground, and 2) far more importantly, he has a girlfriend and so neither of us were actually interested in actually creating a relationship!

But for me, it was a great start into feeling valued and feminine ....and getting into my new habit of going on dates!

Date number 2 went a bit further, as I arranged to meet up with an old friend that I have known for 20 years, and who is definitely single and highly eligible!

We had the most glorious fun time. He cooked me a yummy dinner and the next day he took me for a lazy sunday lunch. We laughed , we sang, we joked around...it was fun, easy and playful.
But absolutely no action . Not even a kiss.

Will definitely see him again as maybe it was just the nervousness of the first date.....
Will keep you updated...

This morning I relaunched myself onto a dating website and connected with a couple of guys...but to be honest I have an action packed day , as usual, and I dont have much time for internet chit chat so Im hoping theyll be men of action and make a move sooner than later!

Meanwhile, Im in a quandry ....should I reveal my challenge to the men Im dating? It seems dishonest not to ...but would I really fancy going out with someone who has another 18 dates lined up?

What do you reckon?